Ikeyiki yokuzalwa iza nebali eloyikekayo lothando lwesini apho uya kulonwabela uthando phakathi kwenkwenkwe yokuzalwa kunye nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni emfihlekweni. Lo mhlobo osenyongweni ngumphathi wekhekhe kwaye esazi ukuba usuku olukhethekileyo luyeza, ubhaka ikhekhe ekhethekileyo eya kwenza ukuba inkwenkwe yokuzalwa ithandane naye. Ukuba ungumhlobo osenyongweni othandana ngokufihlakeleyo nenkwenkwe, kuya kufuneka udlale lo mdlalo kwaye ufunde indlela yokubahenda. Kukho urhwaphilizo, ulawulo lwengqondo kunye nenani elikhulu lokubuyela umva kule noveli yoqobo.